hey lets get married.

I am not the marrying types ...he said. And he was in his second marriage.
Oho thats his "third wife"
Oho he was married to Z and she was married to MrY earlier.
Oho they are about to get married......I think or I hope so

I realised i was in a sea of second marriages...some third or about to become third and so on.

And my first instinct was BLOODY HELL "This is life"... some guys really know how to have fun or some people really get to max their lives "MAX it".

what am i doing wrong! Am i not keeping up with the society.

But this is not about self pity.. No it isnt

suddenly it hit me...And i said HEY who says LIFE doesnt give a second chance and that marriage more than once is bad!!!!!

This bloody society seems to be thriving on it.....what is also interesting is who else is thriving on it....not only is life giving these lost souls something but is also subliminally providing gains to all and sundry....Happiness is being spread.

and the priest said "Let them be happy and let all be happy and so it happened......."

So who all does this new phenomenon affect.....and i realised this new phenomenon is keeping many of us afloat......yes it causes hurt to a few but today i will not talk about it. Today is about positive side of things only wala day.................

Some of the recipients of second marriages are ..................

1) Private eyes
2) Divorce lawyers / Priests/ Band wallahs? DJs/ Astrologers
3)Quick holiday get aways
4)Travel agencies - Honeymoon packages
5) Residential complexes - New homes
6) Grooming Industry - many of ther TG got younger again!!!! The wooer needs their help again
7) Airline Industry/Cabbie companies/Transportation companies
8) Dress makers /Apparel industry
9) Caterers/Party people/Event managers
10) Liquour companies/Soft drink makers
11) Photographers/Camera makers
12) Gifting companies

etc etc etc

So long live the second chance or the third chance or whatever..

and may god give the new couples happiness...till the next time.

my way or highway!

....my friend who is a divorcee" she said .... and i went Hunhhhhhhhhh

i said "stop" and i took a minute to frame my question.
I said i dont know many divorcee women..our generation. Lets talk about them and what goes on with them. how do they deal with life after..why did they divorce...my questions went on....!

She said, i have 5 women friends who r a divorcee! and its not so uncommon!
I wondered what could be the reason.....

she said " the couple had arguments- they disagreed, they found peace and love outside the marriage, it all added up and so they decided to separate"

It sounded pretty simple and straightforward. But it makes me wonder......

Since when have we allowed disagreements to build up to a divorce!
Is divorce not so traumatic anymore!
Is a second life so simple!
Do we take the first marriage as a trial run!
Is it easy for the aaj ki nari!
Has the empowerment led to this!
what happened family structures!

has anyone noticed this !!

What Next?

I discovered writers block.
Inspite of so many things going around myself i still couldnt find a single thread which i could pursue! Guess i went blind for a lil while or maybe i was surrounded by things which werent inspiring or maybe it was vastu, or maybe someone did vodoo on me. ( I think i sensed some pins !)

Have a thought today and here i go once again.......

Anyways